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Comment on Peaceful Mornings with Teens- It is Possible! by Loyal Books

Loyal Books — Mon, 17 Sep 2012 19:17:03 +0000

Wow, liking this blog. I have a teenager and a tween! It is definitely a unique time of child raising.

As per the post, I think people are especially sensitive in the mornings, so I try to not nit-pick about the little things (like someone’s shoes are in the middle of the kitchen – again, or those dirty clothes are STILL not in the laundry room). If something really needs addressing, I’ll make a mental note and talk about it later, after school.

When my sons were little I was doing a little whining one day about how time consuming little ones are… you have to do everything for them, blah blah blah. A wiser (and courageous) man told me it will only get busier. As they get older they need you just as much, but in a different way- in some ways it will be tougher.

He was right.

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Comment on Confessions of a Mom Raising Teens by Barbie

Barbie — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 06:37:39 +0000

I am a mom of two adult children (20 and 18). Oldest daughter to be married in 7 weeks. 18yo son still in many ways a child. Then I have my 11yo daughter (going on 25) and my ADHD 9yo son. My hands are full (and I work full time). I will say I’ve been somewhat fortunate in that my teens have not given me too much trouble. They are basically good kids. For the most part, it’s their heart and attitude I take to the Lord in prayer. Hang in there mama. You are a good mama. You are not a failure. And God is on your side!

Comment on Tattoos~ What’s a Mama to do? by Adrian

Adrian — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 05:25:34 +0000

Such a good topic. I see the most ridiculous tattoos and piercings every day at work. I just wonder what the heck these people were thinking. And they seem to be somewhat addictive because I’ve seen so many people who get bunches of them all over. It’s just crazy. But a well thought-out, well placed tattoo, that has significant mean, I think is OK. I have one on my ankle – an unusual celtic knot design that I planned for years. I’m very happy with it, but I haven’t had much desire to repeat the experience. My son has one on his arm, similar to your son’s. It’s wonderful, except for the fact that it is misspelled. Nothing can be done and he is just going to have to live with it, but I think it took a lot of the joy out of it for him, and he hasn’t had much enthusiasm for a 2nd one. When a tattoo goes bad, it’s just not a fun experience and your advice is right on the money!

Comment on Tattoos~ What’s a Mama to do? by Barbie

Barbie — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 06:30:26 +0000

My daughter (soon to be 21) for the longest time talked about getting a tattoo. She recently changed her mind and decided against it. I did come to terms with it, had she decided to do it. And I would have a butterfly on my ankle if I thought I could handle the pain. I suppose there are worse things. I hope your son will make the right decision for him!

Comment on Will Your Teen Follow God? by melissa

melissa — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 01:22:16 +0000

That encourages me! Our kids are all still in church {they all still live with us so it isn’t an option} and I pray that they continue growing in relationship with Christ long after they fly our nest. Thanks for commenting!

Comment on Will Your Teen Follow God? by melissa

melissa — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 01:21:20 +0000

Thank you for allowing God to soften your heart towards your grandchild. I was a teen mom and support from family is so crucial! Every life is a gift. I will be praying for your son to return to the fold and for everything else God has in store for your family. Thanks for commenting!

Comment on Will Your Teen Follow God? by Barbie

Barbie — Sun, 11 Mar 2012 06:31:05 +0000

I have been very fortunate with my children. They have all attended public school, as being home was not an option for me. I use to worry about the influence the world would have on them. But I trusted the Lord with their lives. My children are precious examples of the hand of God upon them. My eldest daughter, 21, will be married this June to the only man she’s ever known (other than her daddy); my eldest son, 17, is one of the main worship leaders in our House of Prayer. My youngest daughter, 11, prays and sings and leads worship in our Children’s equipping center and loves Jesus. My 8yo son is running behind and just loves to go to church.

We never made going to church an option. And we have always tried to be examples of parents who love God and try to model that. We are imperfect and I know that it’s only by His grace that my children have not gone off the road that God has set out for them.

Comment on Will Your Teen Follow God? by Tamm

Tamm — Sun, 11 Mar 2012 05:54:54 +0000

Thanks for this post. My second son (almost 20yo) is “taking a break” from his faith. It saddens us to no end that he isn’t living for the Lord. My husband and I are first generation Christians. We KNOW what the world is like – the facade of sin. Like you, I don’t want him to “try out” the world and suffer the consequences of that. Letting go has been so hard! I’m so thankful to have had godly women encourage me to love, love, love and love more! My son’s girlfriend is expecting a baby in June. It was so hard to hear those words, “Mom, she’s pregnant.” So much dying to self at that moment, and in the moments to come. Dying to my desire to have a grandchild and to feel free to shout from the rooftops that I’m going to be a grandmother. Dying to my desire to have a “perfect” son’s family. Then the realization that what I was really upset about was my reputation, my dreams being crushed. But what about God? It was in that moment that God reminded me that He created this child. That He has a plan. So I’ve been praying ever since that God would give me a strong love for this grandbaby. And you know what? HE HAS! I’m so excited to meet this precious granddaughter!! I’m letting go, and letting God work. I don’t want my attitude or actions to hinder the work He is doing.

Comment on Getting OFF the “Teens are Troubled” Bandwagon! by Lynnette Kraft

Lynnette Kraft — Thu, 01 Mar 2012 22:27:48 +0000

I know what you mean about a season of growing! I have grown in so many ways through the years! What a joy to have sweet relationships with all of our children!

Love you Kelly!
Lynnette